I hope you all have a wonderful weekend please know I'm hear if needed. Just send me an email,If you need  to talk.
And I ask how was your day???
Candi xoxo

I have a hard time letting go. I always want everyone and thing around me to be happy, Yeah I know impossible. But I always try. I want to help everyone be the best they can be. I have to let go, and come to terms that I can not please everyone and be friend everyone. I can not help you if you don't want help. All I can do is pray that God finds away in.I know I can come across a bit pushes, but it is all out of love. when I lost my little one I didn't have anyone really to lean on, or some one to just listen. I have always said that I will not be that kind of friend. If my friend is upset I'm upset. I always want them to know I'm hear just to listen. And unfortunately Not everyone understands. that's why I must learn to let go, And give it to God.
He can handle it. I have some of the greatest friends now that anyone person can ask for and I know they are gifts from God. I really thank him for bring us together, And I know they will be in my life forever.I have to let go and stop trying to bring in new friends who really don't want to be friends. I always say if a friendship seems like to much work and only one sided, Then you have to let go and move on. Very hard for me, but I'm working on it. Please know I'm always here to listen.
And I ask how was your day???
Candi XOXO

Yes we all need to communicate.
When we talk about issues, we can resolve problems and learn to deal with are feelings. When you keep everything bottled up you feel angry and mad at the world. Also when you loose a child and don't speak about it and push those feeling away. You in turn  push the people away who are just trying to help you. More then 1/3 of married couples divorce after the loss of a child and I believe this stems from the lack of communication between each other.
Please don't push someone to talk about this loss, But please tell them that you would like to speak about it and you can find a quite place to speak about it and see how the other one is feeling. We always feel better when we talk about things. I know if something is bothering me I need to talk about it.I know talking things out makes your bond closer and you don't have those backed up feelings..So please when your ready speak about you loss. You might be surprised in what your find, other people around you feel the same way and are dealing with the issues, Healing is hard and not wanting to talk about it is easy. But you just end up hurting more in the end so speak about it.If you don't have anyone to talk to remember I'm hear to listen and I don't judge people, so please feel free to email me and we can talk about your loss and how your coping with it. And I ask how was your day??
Candi xoxo

This is a very hard thing to do. I found saying goodbye to my precious baby girl
was so hard to do. It was the most heart breaking part of this journey.Just knowing I would not be able to hold and cozy her again. I would not see her walk or say her first words. I felt robbed and angry towards other who had there babies with them.I had to keep her alive in my heart. My little memories of the 15 minutes I had her with me, I have to make them last a life time. I found comfort in doing things for others. Making others happy in return made me happy. I do a lot to keep her memory alive. I donate a lot in her name. Just so people an hear her name. And with out Katharine we would not have babieswithwings. Which has helped hundreds of other parents cope with there loss. I find comfort in knowing my baby has wings and is in heaven watching over us. I know one day we will be together again, and I will hear her call me Mommy. Saying goodbye hurts and is hard to do. I hope you can find comfort in knowing you're not alone. We all had to say goodbye and learn to live again,Please know your baby with wings is watching over you. Remember I am always here to listen. And I ask how was your day???

Candi XOXO

Dear Friends,
I just want to ask all my online friends and family to say a pray tonight for a mother who's Family contacted me today they just lost there little boy, He was only hours old. I ask that you pray that god will hold this family a little closer tonight and for the days to come. We all know their pain and fears and the very hard road that they are now on. I ask you all to light a candle for their baby with wings. This is going to be a very hard for them and they our in need of are pray and support. Thank you all very much and God bless you all. Always here if needed
And I ask how was your Day????
Candi XOXO

I know finding peace right now seems  impossible, And I will not lie it is hard it took me a while to come to terms with what I was facing, I had to do a lot of sole searching. I  took time to my self to be alone with my thoughts and I wrote all of it down I got it out and gave it to god, I told him that I could not do this on my own. That is when I realize he was with me and I was going to be O.K. Every night I thank him for walking with me in this journey I'm on. I can only hope that this site reaches as many mothers as it can, So they know that they are not alone. We can walk it together. I hope we all can find peace with what we are dealing with.Please know I'm always here if needed. And I  ask how was your day???
Candi xoxo

Trust is something we all have a hard time doing. For me I trust to soon, And people will walk over you. I have had to learn to build walls and not to take them down to soon. I have been hurt by many so called friends. You can tell a real friend from a fake. When I lost my baby I found who is worth being friends with and who is not. This is Life and I always speak the truth and If I offended anyone sorry. But the truth sometimes is not nice.I always want to trust everyone I meet, I found out the hard way, that I can not do this anymore.When I started this site I meet someone whom I thought really   wanted this site to help others but to find out they only want to get them selfs out there. LOL. I guess I should have seen it coming but I just always think people are good, Well that was not the case. I had to make the choice to not stay friends with this person anymore.I hope That my mistake can help one of you not to make the same one.Please don't just trust people, Have your wall up. Don't be mean but be aware, Most people want something in return, Nothing is for free anymore.So please,Please remember this Don't just hand out your trust and love, let them earn it.
Remember always here if need
And I ask how was your day???
Candixoxo

This is one of my favorite words, Even if you are suffering right now please know you are loved, On this valentines day let's remember all those who we love, And remember to tell those people we love them. You never know what life is going to bring tomorrow so don't wait to say it then. Say it today this way you will never question your self. Today is the day to love and be loved so in you journeys today just remember to love all you can, Tomorrow is not a promise . Have a wonderful Valentine's Day and please know I love you and I am always here to listen
And I ask how was your day???
CandiXOXO

For He will command His angels concerning you to guard you in all your ways. Your Angel is always with you. They are watching over you and protecting you. They will give you little signs that they are there. From a light flickering or Like me my T.V. turns back on at night, I know this is one of my angels Just letting me know they are there. So take the time out to see the signs, and you will know your Angel is watching over you also. Have a nice night and know I am always here if needed. And I ask how was your day???
Candi xoxo

this is going to be short and sweet,
Please know if you are trying something new and if at first you can't do it don't give up the best things in life take time. keep trying Remember tomorrow is a new day. You can started over. Always here if needed.
And I ask how was your day???
Candi xoxo