This blog tonight is for all the mothers who have babies with wings. I know right now you are facing your worst nightmare and feel trapped. I know having a voice right now is hard and like I have said before everyone grieves different. So please know if a friend or family member are not acting HOW you think they should be. This doesn't mean they don't care, They simply grief differently, maybe they really don't know what to say or how to say it to you. Please don't force them they will come around when they are ready to. When I lost my baby many people close to me stop calling and coming around, 9 years later and the same people don't even mention her name. I couldn't understand why and I was very angry about it, But I have learned to understand that everyone is different and I can't push them into talking about her. To many people death is very scary, and the death of a baby is the least expected to happen. This is why I put this site and my story out there to help others deal with this unfair journey. Did you know in the English language there is no word for what you are when you loss a baby. I believe there should be and this is why babies with wings is here today.
We are all going through the same things and walking down the same road. I know it is always easier to walk that road with a friend then alone. So please let's walk it together.
Please know if you haven't found your voice yet and are unable to speak about your baby with wings, know my voice is big enough for the both of us.(you can ask anyone who knows me). I will be your voice until you find your's. In time you will find it and the healing will begin. It takes time so don't rush it."baby steps'. little by little and we will get there. Please take a look at my Resource  page their are many helpful links and wonderful people who really care and are willing to help. As I end my night remember everyone deals and heals differently. Always here to listen to what ever you may have to say. And I ask how was your day????
Candi xoxo