Yes we all need to communicate.
When we talk about issues, we can resolve problems and learn to deal with are feelings. When you keep everything bottled up you feel angry and mad at the world. Also when you loose a child and don't speak about it and push those feeling away. You in turn push the people away who are just trying to help you. More then 1/3 of married couples divorce after the loss of a child and I believe this stems from the lack of communication between each other.
Please don't push someone to talk about this loss, But please tell them that you would like to speak about it and you can find a quite place to speak about it and see how the other one is feeling. We always feel better when we talk about things. I know if something is bothering me I need to talk about it.I know talking things out makes your bond closer and you don't have those backed up feelings..So please when your ready speak about you loss. You might be surprised in what your find, other people around you feel the same way and are dealing with the issues, Healing is hard and not wanting to talk about it is easy. But you just end up hurting more in the end so speak about it.If you don't have anyone to talk to remember I'm hear to listen and I don't judge people, so please feel free to email me and we can talk about your loss and how your coping with it. And I ask how was your day??
Candi xoxo
Add Comment | All about me I am just a mom learning to relive ArchivesJanuary 2012 CategoriesAll |
RSS Feed